Mom and Stace

Mom and Stace
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Thursday, October 7, 2010

A change of scenery

Good news! The breathing tube is gone! Yay! The doctors weaned her off of the sedatives this morning as well as the breathing tube, then when they were sure she'd be fine on her own, they removed the tube. It's so good to see her back without it. She's also been moved to a room in the cardiothoracic ICU unit. Her nurse today said he thought she's probably going to be in room 2719 there through the weekend. Another piece of good news is that there's a phone in the room now. The phone number is (919) 966-5368. This is great because, yes, we are running a bit low on anytime minutes, and also because cell reception isn't so great at the hospital.

Moving back to Mom, even though she's been taken off of the sedatives, she's still very groggy. She woke up when we came in today, but her eyelids mostly stayed at half-mast and didn't stay open very long. She woke up off and on the whole time we were there and she actually smiled a couple times. Once when I told her we were going to be her cheerleaders, and then again when Dave and Amber brought Olivia in for a few minutes. Olivia, who is already a great blessing in our lives, is going to be an even greater one now. Nothing brightens Mom up like Livy. I think the rest of us feel better when she's there too. :)

Mom's been pretty uncomfortable and she's experiencing some pain so she's been very restless. She's been throwing one leg off the side of the bed and just generally been kind of shifty. She's been trying to produce a good cough and it's been really difficult for her, so she seems to be frustrated by that and it seems painful besides that. She's still somewhat swollen, especially around her neck, but even in her face, arms/hands, and legs/feet. That will continue to get better the more she is able to move around. Right now she's getting all of these IV fluids, but lying pretty still in the bed so all of that liquid is just sitting there. The nurses helped her get the bed into a position that was pretty much sitting and that seemed to relieve a little of the pressure in her back and sides, and I'm kind of taking it as a good sign that she wants to sit. I'm hoping tomorrow she'll be even more alert, but with that alertness is probably going to be increased pain. At least she has a pain pump and she's able to just hit a button every so often when she needs it. Another improvement to look forward to tomorrow is that she'll probably be getting her first feeding tube meal in the evening. I personally requested she be served steak and potatoes. I'm just not sure they can make that into liquid form.

We have loved reading all of the many comments that have been posted to the blog. It's so assuring to know we are so well loved. We also want to thank those of you who have brought us dinner or who have made plans to bring us dinner in the coming days. It's so nice to be able to focus on just being together. Our family is planning to begin a fast for Mom starting this Saturday and if anyone would like join us, we would love to have your support in this manner as well. We know there is strength in numbers and power in prayers and fasting only increases that power. Thanks again and I'll try to get you all an update a little earlier tomorrow night.

11 comments:

  1. I love you Brews! Mom Brew, you will get through this.

    Also, I'll be joining you in the fast and prayer this weekend. I have faith the windows of heaven will pour down blessings.

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  2. To our wonderful neighbors,
    We are so sorry to hear about all that Pam has to go through and this difficult time for your family. Pam has an incredibly loving family and many friends to help get her through this ordeal. Please know that we are here for you all and if there is anything you need, please call us anytime. Sending love and prayers your way....
    Love Patti and Jerry

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  3. We are praying for Sister Brew and your whole family, and we will join your fast. We have asked our ward to fast and pray as well. We are thinking of you all. We know the Lord is mindful of your suffering, that there is an eternal purpose in it, and that the Lord will provide the help you need. We stand ready to help as well: 910-358-3103. Please don't hesitate to call.
    Tim and Pam Strickland

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  4. P.S. Have we mentioned how much we love the Brews?

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  5. Are thinking of you all. Let us know if we can do anything besides pray.
    Michael and Wendy Carter

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  6. We are praying for Sister Brew and your whole family too. We will be join in on your fast. We have asked our branch to fast and pray as well. We are thinking of you all. We know the Lord is mindful of your suffering. This makes me mindful of President Kimball's life too with his throat. As we all know that there is an eternal purpose in all things. The Lord will always provide the help you need. We stand ready to help as well: 910-284-0656. Please don't hesitate to call.
    norman & Susan Adkins - and the whole Wallace Branch....

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  7. Good news indeed!

    We are so blessed to know of the power of prayer and fasting. You are all so loved I know that you will have the faith of many people calling for blessings for your family.

    Christa

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  8. I am glad to hear that Pam is improving. Keep Olivia coming in often, she is good medicine! Anything that brightens her spirits should be part of her wellness plan. Our love, thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
    Marcia

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  9. Thanks for the updates and make sure you give your Mom a hug for us and let us know whatever we can do. Our prayers and love are with your family. Dave and Shelby Grasse

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  10. Dear Brew Family,

    We were very surprised to hear of the news today from Dave & Amber. Just a few days before Pam was diagnosed we were visiting them for our annual Wilmington triathlon. Over the years of our race as we travel to NC to be with our treasured friends Dave & Amber we have always felt so welcome at Pam's home. We have been truly blessed to count the Brew family as our friends. Please pass our well wishes and love on to Pam. Our prayers are with you all.

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  11. Dear Brews,
    We know you are a Strong Family,Hate that Pam is having to go threw this.You are all in our Prays and we Love you all very much.Here on the home front should you need any Please give us a call,Were he for all of you.

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