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Monday, December 13, 2010

The Passing of an Elect Lady

This will be our final entry on Pam's Blog. She left us last night around 10:40 with her family and one very special doctor gathered around her. Oh, how she will be missed but what a legacy of friends and family she leaves behind. We love and appreciate the so very many who tended to her in her final days and who have lent their support and prayers in behalf of our family. The PamBrewFanClub became our friend and a source of great comfort. We will miss your words of encouragement and love but will monitor it for the next few days. Then, it too will be laid to rest. Thanks to all of you for what you've done for our beloved Pam and our family. - Reggie

26 comments:

  1. Dear sweet family,,,,we write with tears in our eyes & heavy hearts because of our loss of Pam. We rejoice that she is free of pain & has joined Ryan in the continuing work of our Father in Heaven. Our hearts & prayers come to you all with the confirming testimony that families are forever. What peace & comfort the knowledge of forever families brings in this time of missing Pam.
    Our love & hugs, Bob & Kitty Henson.

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  2. May angels be with you and your family.

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  3. How I love you Taelor! I wish I could hug you and tell you what a special young lady you are! My heart reaches out to yours in love at this time of sorrow and I hope you can feel it in the comfort of our Savior and Friend. Love, Tami Mix

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  4. Our hearts are heavy for your family. She will be so missed, but memories of her will comfort your family in the days and years ahead. Ryan is so happy to be with his mother again. Our prayer for comfort for all of you will continue.
    Dewey and Vada Keller

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  5. Dear Brew Family, Our prayers are with you all during this very sad time. We are so sorry that you will have to part from your dear wife, mother and grandmother. Pam is a very special woman filled with love and service. We know that the gospel will help you all, it is so sad that your family has had this terrible trial again. We will continue to have you all in our hearts and prayers. We love you Pam.
    We send our love and prayers also, Kyle and Valerie Hawker

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  6. We all cherish our memories of Pam, as we know you all will as well. She truly was an inspiration as a wife and mother. Pam's love touched so many that she touched the world. Our thoughts are with you all. The Bilich Family

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  7. Our heart is heavy with the sadness of Pam's passing, yet full of love for her precious family. She touch sooo many in the time she was with us. She was a true example of the values we teach the young women to aim for: faith, divine nature, individual worth, knowledge, choice & accountability, good works, integrity, and virtue! I was blessed to have known her...as were we all. Good bye, dear Pam.

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  8. Our Family has Truly love her and your hole family.She will surely be miss and we remain in our hearts forever.We will keep you and the family in our prayers. Our hearts swell as we say good bye to a Wonderful Woman.Love you all The Northams

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  9. My prayers and thoughts go out to the family at this time. Know your Savior is with you for comfort and strength.

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  10. May GOD bless you and your family. Sue and I are saddened but know she is happy.

    Jeff and Sue

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  11. I'm so sorry. I know it is hard to find comforting words, but the Gospel and eternal nature of families helps. I hope you can find comfort and know I love your whole family.
    Jamie (Littlefield) Smith

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  12. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. I'm sharing tears with you across the miles. I know Pam is happy and will continue to be a part of your lives from the other side. May you find peace and comfort through the Atonement until you can be reunited eternally.

    Love,
    Tammy Mills

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  13. I do not know your family personally - though am connected. I am a daughter in law to Kathy Thomas Murdoch who grew up with Pam and were dear friends. I am also a daughter of Dean and Nancy Allen who also know your family well. (Along with the rest of the Wilmington Allen's). I have been inspired reading her blog and hearing of her fight over the past few months. I too have a testimony of eternal families and hope you find peace in that also. I am so sorry for your loss.
    Katherine Allen Murdoch

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  14. Our prayers for our Father's choicest blessings continue for your family. We will miss Pam, her strong grip and her happy smile.
    With our love,
    President and Sister Cotterell

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  15. Dear Reggie,

    My thoughts and payers are with you and your family. Your sweet Pam is with your boy today. May you be comforted that one day you'll all be together again. God bless and confort you and the rest of your beautiful family.

    With love,

    Elia Gourgouris

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  16. We were so blessed to count Pam as a friend. She was always so kind, loving, and willing to open her home and heart to our family once a year for our annual trip to Wilmington. Thanks Dave & Amber for being such dear friends. We love you and send our thoughts and prayers with you.

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  17. We send our love to all the family at this time of huge change for you. It is such a comfort to have a testimony of the gospel plan, to know that Pam and Ryan are together and preparing for the rest of you. Our prayers continue in your behalf.

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  18. I don’t know you and you don’t know me, but we both knew Pam and that’s our common thread. What a thread. Even though I grew up with Pam, knew her Mom and Dad, and my brother Kerry is good friends with “Corky”, it has been years since I had spoken with her. However, a little over a year ago my husband passed away and I received a lovely sympathy card containing an even lovelier letter. May I share a little of what she said to me…

    “Yes, you and I both know this is not the end. We both know our Heavenly Father loves us. We know that we are blessed to have been sealed in the temple and that our families are forever. We know that this is just a temporary separation, and yet we still miss our loved one and long for them to be here with us……Believe me, I understand how Heavenly Father blesses us through our most difficult times.”

    What a blessing to know that your Mom, Wife, Sister, and our Friend knows and has a testimony of why she was here and what comes afterward. What a blessing to know that, through your faithfulness, you will be able to enjoy that same wonderful family relationship in the next life.

    We in Utah send our heartfelt sympathy and prayers at the loss of this special lady. May you know of our love for her and for the times we shared growing up together. May you receive the blessings she well understood come at difficult times like this. Much love ~ Susan Fagan

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  19. My heart and prayers are with you and the family...I love you all.
    Eva

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  20. How sad my heart is today to hear of the passing of Pam. It has been a blessing in my life to have such a wonderful and understanding friend. I have many very dear memories of growing up with her and will cherish them always.
    Reggie, you have been such a blessing in Pam's life. She found so much happiness in sharing an eternal marriage and family with you. She adored you and your children.
    Thank you for sharing the Pam Brew fan club with us. We have felt close to Pam and pray you have felt our love. May the Lord bless and comfort you. Love, Kathy Murdoch

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  21. Our prayers are with you and your family at this time.
    The Beckstrands

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  22. Our Thoughts, Paryers, and Love go out to you and all of your family at this time. It gives us is a great comfort to have a knowledge and testimony of the plan of happiness. Through this knowledge we know that Pam and Ryan are together again. We understand that we will see them again. Our prayers continue in your behalf.

    The Adkins of Wallace (Norman, Susan, Elizabeth, & Charlie)

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  23. Reggie and family,
    I am truly sorry for your loss. I feel blessed that I had the chance to meet this incredible woman. In my two days of caring for her it was unremarkable the amount of love and support she had surrounding her. It is evident how amazing of a lady Pam truly was. Again, I am very sorry for your loss and know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Christie

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  24. Words cannot convey the sorrow we feel at the loss of our dear friend. We wish we were still in NC and could attend her funeral, but we hope you can feel the love and sympathy we are sending to you from Utah. May the Lord bless all of you with comfort and peace.
    Much love,
    Vern and Nancy Pyne

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  25. We are so sorry for your loss. We love you and continue to keep your family in our prayers as you navigate this tender time. May Heavenly Fathers tender blessings bring you comfort and peace. Pam was indeed an elect lady, an example for all.
    We send our love,
    Marta and David Anderson

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  26. I consider it one of the greatest blessings of my life - the day I became friends with Staci Brew. If you become friends with one Brew, you are immediately engulfed in all of that great Brew love. Pam and I talked many, many times about the blessings that come out of great tragedy. We felt that our friendship was one of those blessings that came out of Ryan's illness and eventual passing. I know that many blessings are in store for your family. I can physically feel the love of our Savior when I am in your home. I am SO grateful for Pam having been in my life. I know that she will continue to have a great influence on me as I try to follow her incredible example of how to be a loving, kind, loyal and true friend. I love her dearly and always will!
    All of the Howington family take great joy in joining the throngs of people who know and love the Brews. May our friendship with all of you continue to grow over the years to come.
    Love always,
    Julie, Cy and all of the How-How's

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